For Conscious leaders who know Judgment walls destroy trust

The Honor Window reveals what you can't see about yourself and those you judge so you can lead with wisdom, transform relationships, and make the interventions that matter.

The Honor Window is a powerful diagrammatic tool designed to help you identify and break through the invisible walls of judgment that damage relationships. Through its four-quadrant system, you'll discover

In an age of accelerating technology, social media and AI, we must learn how to elevate our ability to transcend irrational conflicts and work together as one human family.

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The hidden threat to your leadership & honor

As a conscious leader, you know your greatest leverage is mastering your own mind and heart. But there's an invisible force working against you: judgment walls.

When you judge someone—even subtly—you can't see them clearly. You can't influence them. You can't lead them. The trust breaks down, and so does your relationship.

The Opportunity we have

The Honor Window is a technology for seeing through these walls to find your wisdom, reclaim your authority, and lead from honor instead of judgment.


  • Elevate your professional effectiveness and results

  • Lead your organization with honor-based wisdom

  • Contribute to healing the division in our world

  • Transform your family dynamics and relationships

How concious leader use Honor Window

Relationships that matter

Most Marriage, family, business partnerstransform the conflicts that threaten what you've built.

When you're facing Crisis

Crisis of conscience, self-judgment, demoralization—find your footing when you've lost your way.

Leading your people

Team breakdowns, being under siege, making interventions lead with wisdom when it matters most

How concious leader use Honor Window

Relationships that matter

Most Marriage, family, business partnerstransform the conflicts that threaten what you've built.

When you're facing Crisis

Crisis of conscience, self-judgment, demoralization—find your footing when you've lost your way.

Leading your people

Team breakdowns, being under siege, making interventions lead with wisdom when it matters most

What Honor Window makes possible for your life

Break the invisible walls of judgment on both sides of the spiritual conflict

Clear the blindspots and dynamics destroying relationships

Possible greater insight and understanding into others

Deeper empathy and compassion for one's self

Break the invisible walls of judgment on both sides of the spiritual conflict

Clear the blindspots and dynamics destroying relationships

Possible greater insight and understanding into others

Deeper empathy and compassion for one's self

Break the invisible walls of judgment on both sides of the spiritual conflict

Clear the blindspots and dynamics destroying relationships

Possible greater insight and understanding into others

Deeper empathy and compassion for one's self

Quadrant One

Name the ways you've been judging this person. The specific words matter we're looking for the labels your mind has been using.

Quadrant One

Name the ways you've been judging this person. The specific words matter we're looking for the labels your mind has been using.

Quadrant One

Name the ways you've been judging this person. The specific words matter we're looking for the labels your mind has been using.

Quadrant Two

For each judgment, discover what you've been standing for in that specific way.

Quadrant Two

For each judgment, discover what you've been standing for in that specific way.

Quadrant Two

For each judgment, discover what you've been standing for in that specific way.

Quadrant Three

See how they might be judging you in response. This reveals the other side of the wall.

Quadrant Three

See how they might be judging you in response. This reveals the other side of the wall.

Quadrant Three

See how they might be judging you in response. This reveals the other side of the wall.

Quadrant Four

This is where the breakthrough happens. See through your judgments to what this person has been standing for all along.

Quadrant Four

This is where the breakthrough happens. See through your judgments to what this person has been standing for all along.

Quadrant Four

This is where the breakthrough happens. See through your judgments to what this person has been standing for all along.

Leaders who've elevated through Honor Window

Jerry Rihs

Conscientious Objector, Switzerland

I wish at the time that I had known of iStand because it would've given me far, far greater courage

Jerry Rihs

Conscientious Objector, Switzerland

I wish at the time that I had known of iStand because it would've given me far, far greater courage

Jerry Rihs

Conscientious Objector, Switzerland

I wish at the time that I had known of iStand because it would've given me far, far greater courage

Katrina

Coach & Yoga Instructor

If it weren't for Michael and his honor work, this would not have been possible.

Katrina

Coach & Yoga Instructor

If it weren't for Michael and his honor work, this would not have been possible.

Katrina

Coach & Yoga Instructor

If it weren't for Michael and his honor work, this would not have been possible.

Hana

Mother & Corporate Sales leader

My daughter was crying and told me, 'I am so glad, mom, that you did this because you just gave me back faith and I really needed this.

Hana

Mother & Corporate Sales leader

My daughter was crying and told me, 'I am so glad, mom, that you did this because you just gave me back faith and I really needed this.

Hana

Mother & Corporate Sales leader

My daughter was crying and told me, 'I am so glad, mom, that you did this because you just gave me back faith and I really needed this.

Mel Eadie

Executive Coach

His Honor Window allowed me the gift of understanding another person's point of view in such a profound way, that hostility and fear was dissolved—permanently.

Mel Eadie

Executive Coach

His Honor Window allowed me the gift of understanding another person's point of view in such a profound way, that hostility and fear was dissolved—permanently.

Mel Eadie

Executive Coach

His Honor Window allowed me the gift of understanding another person's point of view in such a profound way, that hostility and fear was dissolved—permanently.

Robin Guilfoyle

Healthcare Executive

Having extensive experience and education in Management and Communication, I found this process to be more eye opening and more productive than any other tool that I have ever used

Robin Guilfoyle

Healthcare Executive

Having extensive experience and education in Management and Communication, I found this process to be more eye opening and more productive than any other tool that I have ever used

Robin Guilfoyle

Healthcare Executive

Having extensive experience and education in Management and Communication, I found this process to be more eye opening and more productive than any other tool that I have ever used

Michael Phoenix

You become something so great, so powerful. It's literally world changing

Michael Phoenix

You become something so great, so powerful. It's literally world changing

Michael Phoenix

You become something so great, so powerful. It's literally world changing

Common questions about Honor Window

What if I can't think of what they're standing for?

What if I'm still angry after?

Do I have to tell them about this?

Can I do multiple Honor Windows?

How do I know if my answers are "right"?

I've tried other relationship tools that didn't work. How is Honor Window different?

What if I can't think of what they're standing for?

What if I'm still angry after?

Do I have to tell them about this?

Can I do multiple Honor Windows?

How do I know if my answers are "right"?

I've tried other relationship tools that didn't work. How is Honor Window different?

What if I can't think of what they're standing for?

What if I'm still angry after?

Do I have to tell them about this?

Can I do multiple Honor Windows?

How do I know if my answers are "right"?

I've tried other relationship tools that didn't work. How is Honor Window different?

See through your own walls

The Honor Window is a practice, not just an idea. Experience it for yourself.

See through your own walls

The Honor Window is a practice, not just an idea. Experience it for yourself.

See through your own walls

The Honor Window is a practice, not just an idea. Experience it for yourself.