Hana: "I Met My Husband and My Kids for the First Time"

Hana attended bootcamp frustrated with her life, her circumstances, her husband, her kids—everything.

"To the point that I said, well, maybe I'll go to this. And then after that, maybe I'll go somewhere far away to sort out all my frustrations."

The Honor Window opened her heart.

"I realized that I was coming from an ego and a victim place—poor me, me, me, me, frustrated, all of that. And I have missed the biggest part of my family... of who they are."

The Honor Ceremony

When Hana went home, she gathered her family—her husband and all her children, including her adult daughter.

"I gathered the family and I told them that I wanted to honor each one of them for the gift that they have given in my life."

She started with her husband—the one she'd been judging most.

"He was my biggest teacher. He was teaching me all of these things that my ego was refusing to see or hear... I honored him in front of my children."

Her husband was resistant at first, unsure what she was doing.

"I looked at him and I thanked him for who he is, for all the lessons, for who he is for me and who I am for him and how I'll always see him. And I really saw him and there were tears in his eyes."

Then she honored each of her children individually.

The Transformation

Her 25-year-old daughter, with whom she'd had years of conflict, began crying.

"I am so glad, mom, that you did this because I got to the point where I wasn't feeling comfortable having any close relation with anyone, and I didn't wanna have kids because of all the things that we had. You just gave me back faith and I really needed this."

Her younger son said, "This was long needed," and asked to attend bootcamp himself.

"The whole relation in the family have changed. The whole dynamic have changed. And it's because I changed. I started to come from my heart and really honor them."

Hana continues:

"I never thought that I would have this relation with my kids or my husband. I never thought that I will stand and look at them in that way."

Tracey: "I Met My Husband Two Days Ago"

Tracey Teague had been with her husband for 12 years when she attended bootcamp.

After experiencing the Honor Window work, she said:

"My husband has been a part of my life for the last 12 years. But I met him two days ago."

"It has been the most powerful, life-changing marital experience that anyone could ever imagine."

What Becomes Possible

When you use the Honor Window in your marriage or romantic relationship, you:

• See your partner for who they really are—not just your judgments

• Understand what they've been standing for all along

• Find compassion instead of resentment

• Reclaim your own heart and authority

• Transform the dynamic from judgment to honor

• Create new possibilities—reconciliation, deeper intimacy, or peaceful separation

The Honor Window doesn't tell you whether to stay or go. It helps you see clearly so you can make that decision from wisdom instead of judgment.